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Letter To The Christian Churches
Written By: Christian LGBT Citizens Around The Nation
I, _______________, hereby ask you, _________________ , that you open your hearts to help heal so many of your Brothers and Sisters in Christ and consider accepting and including LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender) persons into your congregation and your community. Asking you to welcome and affirm them into your church fellowship is not going soft on sin. It is just the opposite. It is recognizing that we are all such great sinners in God's sight that we can never judge another's sins as worse than our sins. If we, sinners as we are, can be part of the fellowship of the church, then homosexuals, if they are considered sinners, can also be part of the fellowship. The criteria for their being welcomed are in their love for the Lord, their desire to worship and serve him and to have fellowship with us.Many Christian religions seem to believe that if one is gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender that one has not received Christ as savior and must repent of their sins and ask Christ into their heart. For many of the LGBT community, Christ has been accepted into our hearts. Some struggle between what they have been taught to believe and what they feel deep down inside. Sometimes causing depression and suicide. Families are often torn apart because of what they have been taught to believe and seeing their family member as something other than a real human being. All of us who love the Lord with all our hearts, souls and minds find it a daily prayer to understand how our Brothers and Sisters in the Lord can reject and rebuke us. We ask that you open your hearts to help heal a rift within the Body of Christ.
There are some in the Church who believe that in order to fully accept the wonderful gift of grace that God has granted through His Son, Jesus Christ, the homosexual must repent of their orientation and either embrace the heterosexual lifestyle or remain celibate the remainder of their lives. William Barclay, whose commentaries on the books of the New Testament have sold over a million copies, has this comment on celibacy: "Sex is a part of life and the deliberate annihilation of it is not a virtue; it is a criticism of life as God made it and meant it to be." McNeill believes, "Only a sadistic God would create millions of humans as gay with no choice in the matter and no hope of changing and then deny them the right to express their gayness in a loving relationship for the rest of their lives under threat of eternal damnation."
As you are well aware, there are many adults in the LGBT community that seek guidance and counsel at their congregations while they are coming to terms with their unchangeable orientation. Far too many times they are turned away unless they seek “reparative therapy.” How have we built up the Body of Christ by this? Did Jesus turn away the alcoholic until his alcoholism was cured? The prostitute until they proved themselves worthy? NO, Jesus was accused by the Pharisees of just the opposite!
Dr. Jeffrey S. Siker in "Homosexual Christians, the Bible and Gentile Inclusion: Confessions of a Repenting Heterosexist" states that the first Jewish considered Gentiles as unclean, polluted, idolatrous, and sinful--the same revulsion many church people feel for homosexuals. Before Gentiles could be accepted as Christians, many thought, they must first repent of being Gentiles, become Jews and obey Jewish laws such as Sabbath-keeping and kosher food; then they could become Christians.
Like the Gentiles, homosexuals cannot, and do not need to, repent of being such; they just need to be accepted as what they truly are, wonderful faithful children of a multifaceted God whose creation is more varied and wondrous than the human mind can fathom.
Here are some statistics I wish to discuss with you:
In the Robert Spitzer Study commissioned by Exodus, a gay reparative therapy organization, claimed success rates of 30 to40%. A follow up study performed by Michael Schroeder and Ariel Shidlo of the 202 participants found only 4% (i.e. 8 patients) reported a shift in sexual orientation from 5 or more to 3 or less on a 1-7 scale of hetero/homosexual balance. Of these - the only ones who could perhaps be classified as 'ex-gays' - 7 out of 8 put down as occupation that they were 'ex-gay' counselors. The eighth person refused a follow-up interview. Obviously there is a serious conflict of interest/secondary gain issue among this group.
In 1975 a symposium on homosexuality at the annual meeting of the Christian Association for Psychological Studies found that behavioral science research and the realities of their clinical practice had forced them to propose that while promiscuity, fornication, and adultery should be regarded as sinful for both homosexual and heterosexual persons, a loving, committed, permanent relationship between two persons of the same sex was in an entirely different category and was not condemned in Scripture, and that Christians burdened with an involuntary homosexual orientation could choose a committed homosexual relationship as within God's will rather than an unwanted celibacy.
In 1998 the APA adopted a position opposing any therapy designed to change a person's sexual orientation. The APA President stated, "There is no scientific evidence that reparative or conversion therapy is effective in changing a person's sexual orientation. There is, however, evidence that this type of therapy can be destructive."
Recent studies have shown that gay teens that are rejected by their families are 8.4 times more likely to report having attempted suicide, 5.9 times more likely to report high levels of depression, 3.4 times more likely to use illegal drugs and 3.4 times more likely to report having engaged in unprotected sexual intercourse compared with peers from families that reported no or low levels of family rejection. Approximately one half of all homeless teens are LGBT youth who have been thrown out because of their orientation.
Jesus, in Mark 9:42 warns us that “And whosoever shall offend (cause to sin) one of these little ones that believe in me, it is better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and he were cast into the sea.” When an LGBT youth is tossed out of the home simply because of their orientation and that child turns to drugs, prostitution or commits suicide, whose neck will our Lord hang the millstone on?
God himself told Peter that the laws regarding what food is clean and the law about not associating with Gentiles were no longer in effect (Acts 10:13-15). One reason the Jewish leaders hated Christ so much was his constant violation of the Sabbath laws. Jesus condemned the Pharisees for following the letter of the law in tithing every little thing but having "neglected the weightier matters of the law, justice and mercy and faith" (Matt. 23:23). Paul has lengthy discussions about the laws of circumcision being useless to the Christian. Paul has this to say about obeying the letter of the law: "For freedom Christ has set us free; stand fast therefore, and do not submit again to a yoke of slavery." (Gal: 5:1) Instead, he says, we live by "faith working through love" (v. 6). Rom. 6:4 tells us we are "not under the law but under grace," and Rom. 1:14 that "Christ is the end of the law," and II Cor. 3:6 that "The letter kills, the spirit gives life," and Gal. 5:14 that "The whole law is fulfilled in one word, `You shall love your neighbor as yourself.'"
As Richard Hays, a conservative theologian who believes homosexuality itself is sinful believes: "Unless we think the church is a community of sinless perfection, we will have to acknowledge that [gays and lesbians] are welcome along with other sinners in the company of those who trust in the God who justifies the ungodly (Rom. 4:5). If they are not welcome, I will have to walk out the door along with them, leaving in the sanctuary only those entitled to cast the first stone."
LGBT citizens for the most part are good people, often raised with good morals and standards. But, the reward is not so great. We are often shamed, confronted like criminals, and some of us are the victims of brutal hate crimes. People learn to hate because of the way they had been taught. People tend to also act out of fear because someone is different than they are. People fear what they don’t understand. As being heterosexual is not a choice for you, neither is being gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, asexual, or queer a choice for any one of us. Sooner or later we accept ourselves and then we learn to be free from the bonds that have held us. Some accept it earlier in life, some accept it later in life. Each member of the LGBT community has their own story to tell, their own struggles in life.
As an LGBT citizen and member of my community, I am continuing to provide education to people who misunderstand us, support and encourage the people who do, and not give up in the battle for equal rights of us all. More people need to understand us, and with understanding comes compassion, with compassion will come less hatred and fear of the people who are different and live differently from others. There would be fewer hate crimes, fewer people living in fear and fewer families torn apart.
We need your understanding and your help.
Sincerely,
Your Brothers and Sisters in Christ
Signed By: _________________________
Print Name: ________________________
City and State:_______________________
Date Signed: ________________________ “Love thy neighbor, as thyself.”