Proposition 8
The truth is proposition 8 has nothing to do with two people loving each other. Its about controlling who's sexual organ goes where, which is in its self ridiculous. Californians have turned themselves into the bedroom police. I wouldn't want someone telling me that I can only have sex with my girl missionary position because that's the way its supposed to be. Nothing in life is the way its supposed to be. Nobody cares that people love each other, it's their sexual organs they can't get past. People will love each other no matter what color height sex ect. Gay people want the same rights as any other American. Prop 8 has created a new class of people Gays. As stated by the California constitution Gays are beneath the majority of the population because they choose to love and express themselves with someone of the same sex. If you have a problem with gay sex, then don't do it: no one is forcing it upon anyone.
Argument: Don't really see the correlation between slavery and gay marriage. One involves forced bondage and destruction of one's humanity, the other involves not being allowed to participate in a cultural ceremony.
Response: The removal of one's right to be with the one they love based on sexual organs is a form of forced bondage and making them a second class citizen is the destruction of a beings humanity knowing you are thought of as less than others. Black and Gay struggles are one in the same fighting for equal rights in a county that has placed discrimination in every level of government. The participation of marriage is not a specific cultural ceremony; different cultures do it a different way(which is the meaning of culture: the behaviors and beliefs characteristic of a particular social, ethnic, or age group"). Marriage, even from a legal stance, is a big deal. It allows couples power of attorney for legal and death matters, health care, and taxes. What it all boils down to is discrimination.
Argument: I don't want my kids to be taught about gay marriage in school and I don't want them to think its OK for gays to be married.
Response: Kids do not care about people being gay or the sex lives of adults. Kids must be taught hate, which is what prop 8 promotes. What if your one or both of your kids were gay? Would you tell them they could never be happy and they are beneath you? Gay and Hetero couples keep their sex lives to themselves and no one in the right mind would subject their children to any kind of abuse, adopted or blood.
Argument: Its against my religion.
Response: Marriage predates religion and is a bond of love and commitment between two people. All through out history there have have been couples of same sex relationships with different creeds and colors. Beliefs of Americans vary but we all live under the same law allowing freedom and liberty for all. How fast is the time forgotten when blacks had to sit in the back of the bus, white only fountains, Japanese internment, and Mexican farmer wages.
Argument: It destroys family values.
Response: The meaning of your personal relationship does not change because of the relationship of others. A white heterosexual couple marriage values is not affected when a black heterosexual couple marry. So why would it be different because two males or females want to be together, married? The importance of the marriage bond is not the sexual relations of the couple its the bond of love in their hearts. That is what family is about the love and care for the members of your group of people. Blood family can not be chosen but family through heart and dedication can be. Why aren't we focusing on the ways that hetero couples destroy family values?
People will love each other no matter what color, height, sex or creed.
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"Some serious Nut job sent me this in my inbox. I swear his mind is twisted what a wacko."I read your post on the Truth
Between You and Kodi Lane
Kodi
Today at 12:42am
hello Eyeopener, i would like to talk to you about the post, you seem full of anger, and i want to talk to you about the truth of why people are opposing it, i didnt feel like your arguments justified my stance on it.
I am a Roman Catholic, and this is how i look at the world as it is today
here is a quote that sums it up perfectly..
'Woe to thosewho call evil good,' but that is exactly what we have done. We have lost
our spiritual equilibrium and reversed our values.
We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery.
We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare.
We have killed our unborn and called it choice.
We have shot abortionists and called it justifiable.
We have neglected to discipline our children and
called it building self esteem.
We have abused power and called it politics.
We have coveted our neighbor's possessions and called it ambition.
We have poluted the air with profanity and pornography called it
freedom of expression.
We have ridiculed the time-honored values of our forefathers
and called it enlightenment.
I hope you have taken the time to read this because i took the time to read yours, now i would like to cover some of your points..
1. "If you have a problem with gay sex, then don't do it: no one is forcing it upon anyone" my answer to this is you are forcing me to live in a world that it exhists in. And i feel it is unnatural, and a sin.
an act against God, and the people who are doing this sin, are not living to become who they where ment to be, as created by God.
its selfish, you dont need to have sex, unless you are making children, but god knows we all love sex, when the man and the women do it is is justifiable because it makes children, when the same sex do it. it is just a selfish act that cuts god out of the picture.
If we remove God from the picture
we are in hell. and things will only get worse.
that is why we stand against things like abortion and same sex. We love God and we dont want him taken out of the world, even tho its not fair that we are forcing you to live in a world that has God, i guess thats why they made heaven and hell, but while on earth, we will always be at conflict,
Argument: Its against my religion. (ID SAY ITS AGAINST GOD), my religion is just how i worship God..
God made the laws, and he predates everything,
same law allowing freedom and liberty for all.
these laws where formed on the beleif of a God, on our bills it says in God we trust, God Bless America, id say its time for America to bless God,
Blacks defeated slavery because slavery was against Gods law.
if you want gay marriage to be allowed all over the world, its simple
find a way that it fits into Gods Law, and no matter what government it will overcome Gods Law. Or you can remove God from every corner of the earth, and supress and inslave God, so that you can make rules of your own, and allow things like Gay Marriage
Now you say what if i had gay children, would i treat them as second class, and they will never be happy NO i wouldn't.
I am not better than any man or women on earth.
But as a parent and if i had found my child was gay, i would treat them the same as if i found they where a theif, or a murderer, or a lier.
i would tell them its a sin, and is against Gods plans for them.
i would tell them that they can continue to live selfishly, and do gay things and live the lifestyle, but they would never become who God wanted them to be. I would tell them that if the temptation to be gay is soo great they should pray to God for healing. I know many people who where Gay, and then found God and now have happy marriages to opposite sex with kids, and are very very happy. They defeated the sin with God. And they tell me, that being gay is very much a choice, just as much a choice to steal or murder.
thats my thoughts.
now give me yours.
respectfully,
Cody
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"another great one." From Becka
I would say you are the one with the twisted mind Eyeopener. This man is just trying to convey a counter argument and here you are all "liberated", "tolerant" and "spiritually upward" and how do you respond? You call him "twisted" and a "wacko".
Perhaps, then, I have clearence to label you: HYPOCRITE.
unless we can all get involved in a DISCUSSION, we will never come to any agreement. If all you do is want to spout off and never hear any retort, then who is the one being jugdemental?
feel free to post this on your site... labeling me "a screwed up homophobe" or whatever you can come up with. You will never know my whole person, nor I yours, unless we are involved in an open dialogue. I'm willing... are you?
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Cody is a nut job, not because of his beliefs but for his justifications of slavery, and down right foolish comments like:
"If you have a problem with gay sex, then don't do it: no one is forcing it upon anyone" my answer to this is you are forcing me to live in a world that it exhists in. And i feel it is unnatural, and a sin.
We have exploited the poor and called it the lottery.
We have rewarded laziness and called it welfare.
Blacks defeated slavery because slavery was against Gods law.
I would tell them that if the temptation to be gay is soo great they should pray to God for healing.
If hes talking about the California lottery then hes trippin, it's a dollar and part of the money goes to education. It's open to anyone rich or poor.
Wellfare for people in need of help. I'm all for it, its not a glamorous lifestyle.
Slavery was ended with the murder of countless Americans over beliefs and Religion.
I have never met any one who was tempted to be gay. Like someone leaned over to another person of the same sex and said "Go gay this week Im sure you will like it, its kinda ridding a bike for the first time all you need to do its learn."
Cody chooses to force his views even at the expense of his own children. Would he beat them if they tried to confide in him? Cody lives in a box and doesn't want to see the world how it is. Gay anal sex has been around since the beginning of time and exists in every part of the animal kingdom. I guess he doesn't want to admit the wrong doings of his religion. Men of the cloth molesting and raping children, male and female. Hes under the impression that since god turned water to wine he would just as easy turn people from gay to "straight". Wouldn't being gay be accepted by god since we are all created in his image?
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Becka,
Cody is not presenting a strong counter argument he is crying about hes personal views and not the facts. I haven't heard any justification for discrimination other than god this and god that. I could counter with, god will banish Cody to hell because he does not accept a gay person, one of gods creations. Just because a person feels that one plus one is THREE doesn't make it right. Personal religious views should not dictate the views of state, hence the First Amendment Separation of Religion and State.
Put it this way, if the Roman Catholic Church is so right about everything, then why was Galileo Galilei jailed and on trial because he proved the earth revolved around the sun and not the other way around. It was finally proven that the universe doesn't revolve around the earth. Galileo is a symbol of church repression and things to come.
The bible is a book written by man, who is fallible. For example, I have two bibles in front of me right now, one has verses removed that society doesn't find acceptable in modern times.
"So the sun stood still, and the moon stopped, till the nation avenged itself its enemies, as it is written in the Book of Jashar. The sun stopped
in the middle of the sky and delayed going down for about a full day." (Joshua 10:13 NIV)
That must have been one hot ass extended day. I wonder how Galileo would have felt.
"Women should be silent in the churches, for they are not permitted to speak, but should be submissive, as the law also says." (1 Corinthians 14:34)
That's right don't speak this is a mans house.
"Judge for yourselves: Is it proper for a woman to pray to God with her head uncovered? Does not even nature itself teach you that if a man has long hair it is a disgrace to him, but that if a woman has long hair, it is her glory? For her hair is given to her as a covering." (1 Corinthians 11:13-15)
Hair bands are the devil.
"If any man takes a wife, and goes in on her, and detests her, and charges her with shameful conduct, and brings a bad name on her, and says, 'I took this woman, and when I came to her I found she was not a virgin..." (Deuteronomy 22:13,14)
"But if ... evidences of virginity are not found for the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones..." (Deuteronomy 22:20,21)
Americans have been lagging on their rock throwing.
"One of illegitimate birth shall not enter the congregation of the Lord." (Deuteronomy 23:2)
Can't go to church if your mother wasn't married.
"Slaves, obey your human masters with fear and trembling, in the sincerity of your heart, as to Christ." (Ephesians 6:5)
"Slaves, obey your human masters in everything; don't work only while being watched, in order to please men, but work wholeheartedly, fearing the Lord." (Colossians 3:22)
"Slaves are to be submissive to their masters in everything, and to be well-pleasing, not talking back ." (Titus 2:9)
"Slaves, submit yourselves to your masters with all respect, not only to the good and gentle but also to the cruel. " (1 Peter 2:18)
But but Cody said "Blacks defeated slavery because slavery was against Gods law."
So now I have proven the bible is "infallible, inerrant Word of God"; or have I? Maybe we should all read the bible and only choose the bits and pieces we feel are valid us, call it Modified Faith. If we all followed the verse below there would be little to no trouble.
"Jesus said to him, You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself. On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."
(Matthew 22:37-40)
Treat others how you would like to be treated...
Becka this is how you use facts to have a discussion. You can't argue that the words aren't true because they are in every bible(that isn't edited). I am accepting of ideas and concepts that are well thought out and more or less logical, not foolish, blind, ignorance.
Bible Sources.
Holy Bible, New Living Translation, Tyndale House Publishers INC
Holy Bible, The New American Bible, Catholic Press World 1970 (This one has missing scriptures editing the word of god who would have thought)