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FaerieFyre
FaerieFyre
40. RE: What HAPPENED???
Dec 31 2008, 8:45 AM EST | Post edited: Dec 31 2008, 8:45 AM EST
"Violet and I were planning to attend the UVillage event rather than the Westlake one, so we wouldn't have added numbers to your group even without the storm, but maybe I can help to clarify it for you.

I'm from southern California. I've been on the streets since before the election, and have attended every possible local event since then. Violet's joined me when she's been able to, and we were both really looking forward to standing vigil in Seattle.

However, it was, frankly, unwise for us to hit either location by the time LUTN was to start, given the snowfall that had already accumulated, the poor visibility, my limited experience driving on anything other than dust, and the rest of the night's forecast. Not only would we have been risking our own lives, but the lives of others on the roads who were willing or forced to risk theirs.

As a side note, we made reservations for the holidays at a place out of town several months ago, before the election, long before LUTN was announced. Our vacation was supposed to start on the 20th. We delayed our departure in order to attend the event. Because we delayed our departure, even though we were unable to make it to UVillage, we weren't able to take advantage of our pre-paid reservation until the 23rd.

Add to that Violet's compromised ability to regulate her body temperature (a side effect for her of chemotherapy a few years ago), and I do take exception to the implication that our failure to appear was a decision made lightly.

All the same, we can both understand and empathize with your frustration. We've been encountering some of the same sort of apathy in California, too, so I can see where you're coming from. I simply feel that in this case, on this night, perhaps more slack was warranted than you seem to be willing to grant."
I just seriously want to figure out the truth, really. I mean, yes, it wasn't the greatest driving conditions. I simply stated that my friend and I made it in a beat-up car, that's what our commitment level was like. That's also what it sounded like most people's commitment level was going to be like. Yet, when it came down to the wire... well, you know the rest.

Your situation was perfectly understandable, really. Understand that I'm not trying to attack anyone... I was just jazzed up for the event and then upset when everything went down the gutter. I have seen it happen more than once. A bunch of people get really excited about a certain event (specifically, grassroots advocacy such as this) and all the sudden, everything fizzles. I've gotten tired of it and probably pretty jaded about it, too.

I have a better understanding of what went on in other's heads, now.
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mominreallife
mominreallife
41. RE: What HAPPENED???
Dec 31 2008, 9:33 AM EST | Post edited: Dec 31 2008, 9:33 AM EST
"Violet and I were planning to attend the UVillage event rather than the Westlake one, so we wouldn't have added numbers to your group even without the storm, but maybe I can help to clarify it for you.

I'm from southern California. I've been on the streets since before the election, and have attended every possible local event since then. Violet's joined me when she's been able to, and we were both really looking forward to standing vigil in Seattle.

However, it was, frankly, unwise for us to hit either location by the time LUTN was to start, given the snowfall that had already accumulated, the poor visibility, my limited experience driving on anything other than dust, and the rest of the night's forecast. Not only would we have been risking our own lives, but the lives of others on the roads who were willing or forced to risk theirs.

As a side note, we made reservations for the holidays at a place out of town several months ago, before the election, long before LUTN was announced. Our vacation was supposed to start on the 20th. We delayed our departure in order to attend the event. Because we delayed our departure, even though we were unable to make it to UVillage, we weren't able to take advantage of our pre-paid reservation until the 23rd.

Add to that Violet's compromised ability to regulate her body temperature (a side effect for her of chemotherapy a few years ago), and I do take exception to the implication that our failure to appear was a decision made lightly.

All the same, we can both understand and empathize with your frustration. We've been encountering some of the same sort of apathy in California, too, so I can see where you're coming from. I simply feel that in this case, on this night, perhaps more slack was warranted than you seem to be willing to grant."
I think where my frustration comes from is that it wasn't just Seattle that had poor numbers. If we had large numbers all over except for places that major snow fell I would consider it a success. Instead, thousands of shoppers battled unpleasant weather and saw just a few people holding candles.


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FaerieFyre
FaerieFyre
42. RE: What HAPPENED???
Dec 31 2008, 2:34 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 31 2008, 2:34 PM EST
"I think where my frustration comes from is that it wasn't just Seattle that had poor numbers. If we had large numbers all over except for places that major snow fell I would consider it a success. Instead, thousands of shoppers battled unpleasant weather and saw just a few people holding candles.


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Good point. Simple, I know, but not much to add to that.
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ozoozol
ozoozol
43. RE: What HAPPENED???
Dec 31 2008, 4:02 PM EST | Post edited: Dec 31 2008, 4:02 PM EST
Crazy consumers ;)

I do understand how you feel. Been there--one night there was a club opening with a couple hundred in attendance and the next night, we couldn't field two dozen to join us at an intersection.

Any rate, I will be moving back up to Seattle full time in the next few months, and have every intention of continuing here what I've been doing in California.

One or two bodies at a time.
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GailWise
GailWise
44. RE: LA LUTN Video
Jan 1 2009, 1:36 PM EST | Post edited: Jan 1 2009, 1:36 PM EST
Hi, all!

Here's a link to some great youtube coverage of the Hollywood LUTN by Ashley Magnet, a fabulous trans activist. Check it out. It was a great event.

http://www.youtube.com/ashleymagnet
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